• Be trustworthy and responsible.
  • Don’t sleep around or cheat.
  • Keep yourself in shape.
  • Be pleasant to be around.

That’s not a complicated list.

With regard to some of your other points: men don’t mind women who have had a few partners. Men mind women who have had a lot of partners, or have been irresponsible about it. If you had good reasons and dated for two years, I won’t hold it against you relationship-wise if you slept with someone. If you banged someone you met in a bar last night, I will. It’s not complicated.

Lastly, there are healthy marriages (most of them start young and don’t sleep around first), but the number out there are declining by the day. The younger demographic is simply not marrying as much as they used to, so my advice is start young and get real about who you can marry and what you want to do about it.

Hambydammit says: August 11, 2010 at 11:44 pm Choosing cads 12 times – that tells me a woman is not learning from her experiences, and that signals decreased LTR fitness, IMO.

Yeah. So in function, there’s little difference between a girl who’s been suckered into a “slut number” and a girl who’s slutted her way there. Both are seen as bad risks for guys looking for a LTR. Whenever I’m contemplating a relationship with a girl who’s had lots of partners, I want to know the specific reasons why she’s had so many, and I want to be well convinced that I am not likely to be a stop on the way to wherever she’s wandering. In other words, I need to see that there’s been a wholesale change in her such that she doesn’t need or want to pursue that lifestyle anymore.

verie44 says: August 12, 2010 at 12:28 am Can someone comment about “grudge fucking”? I’ve heard this argument from one of my guy friends. It’s basically an idea from the opposite side of the fence. A guy is interested in a girl, but because she waits too long to give it up (according to him) and makes him “jump through hoops” by taking time to get to know her and spend time with her without being sexually satisfied, he’s no longer really interested in her as a person because he’s annoyed. Now he just wants to screw her and leave her when she finally does have sex with him.

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