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https://bit.ly/3JaD0It https://bit.ly/3GuGzI1 https://bit.ly/3Hx1M5g https://bit.ly/3GHFUTK https://bit.ly/3st3MVQ https://bit.ly/3rAyBsE https://bit.ly/34o5yj7 https://bit.ly/3JaD377 https://bit.ly/34vdQFM https://bit.ly/3uDRiNR Trouble Marriage Dear Derrick, Accept my apologies for the late reply. That hurts indeed. the fact that your wife doesn’t say anything is understandable- that’s quite a thing to confess, especially if the two of you don’t speak face to face. I think that the first question you have to ask yourself is, what do YOU want? I know many men who would split with their wife in a situation like that. Do you want that? If yes, it is legitimate. If, however, you are not yet ready for such a move, the first thing you have to do is talk to your wife about it when she returns. You’ll have to do this whatever your decision might be. Make an effort to speak calmly, and ask her about the photos. If you opened HER email account to see them without her consent, expect a negative reaction from you wife. People tend to get defensive in situations like that. Listen to what she has to say and whether she wants to stay married to you , and then, you might find it easier to decide. I cannot tell you whether to divorce your wife. It is your and hers choice to make, and if the two of you want this, it is, of course, possible. this answer was sent to you via mail, just in case. Please don’t hesitate to write again for additional advice. Best Regards Trouble Marriage Dear Kenneth, First of all, I appreciate your honesty and your ability to admit that it is partly your responsibility for your wife’s unfaithfullness. Still, your feelings are totally understandable. It is a hard thing to forget, and it might take quite a period. I never recommend forcing yourself to brush aside your resentment like nothing happened. If you feel you can’t live with your wife right now, give yourself time. However, it is a good thing that the two of you keep in tough. I would recommend telling your wife all that you told me – that you love her, that you know why she did what she did, but still feel angry and are not ready to get together right now. Ask her to give you time. Make an effort to speak calmly, without accusing her. She feels remorse even if she doesn’t show it, and you don’t want her to get defensive. However, don’t speak coldly. Try to spend some time together, if only just taking a walk together, or dining. You told me you didn’t give your wife enough attention. It’s time to make it up to her and give your relationship a chance to rebuild itself, slowly and gently, till you both feel at ease with each other again. Good luck. Please write again if you need more advice, or visit the links in the end of the article.
