https://cutt.ly/mF44eqH https://cutt.ly/GF44o6Y https://cutt.ly/oF44fFG https://cutt.ly/VF44jpv https://cutt.ly/ZF44zpu https://cutt.ly/9F44v2L https://cutt.ly/7F44Qpo https://cutt.ly/BF44RxD OTOH why would any loving man want to deny a woman control over her life? Can he guarantee he is going to outlive her so that she will never know the trauma of being widowed and left unable to think and function independently? That's not much of a legacy of love IMO. The greatest gift of feminism to women and their partners was that of choice. Which means that a true feminist respects the choice of another woman to submit to her husband, if she has a husband worthy of the trust implied therein. It also means if a woman does not choose to submit to a Taken In Hand relationship, a feminist (read: believer in egalitarian principles) respects that choice as well. I think the world can only be a better place when we tolerate each other's POV, whether it's the dominant male-submissive female dynamic, or something altogether different. Being intolerant and trying to narrow other people's choices has been practised on most of this planet, since man first stood upright, with predictable results. Maddy by Mad4Him on 2004 Aug 30 - 06:43 | reply to this comment Me and Feminism