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https://bit.ly/3tE3mg6 https://bit.ly/3ISNkFf https://bit.ly/3KuBNg6 https://bit.ly/35ZpxVU https://bit.ly/3MrqYwS https://bit.ly/3tIy0EO https://bit.ly/34pvFGl https://bit.ly/3MyaHGn https://bit.ly/3Cmhizf https://bit.ly/3HSRgoc https://bit.ly/3hQmj9S I love pleasing a man. It's one of the nicest bits of a relationship for me. It's almost the essence of my submissiveness. In all contexts I'd rather please than be pleased. I am afraid I tend to please men more by talking to them about my work than having my hand down a toilet cleaning, but that just depends on the man one picks. I've not been out with a dominant man who's wanted me not to work or expected me to do my own or his cleaning. I think that's a bit of a red herring to raise - a necessary convergence between being a housewife and pleasing a man. In fact I've been very nicely surprised by how clever successful men prefer clever successful working women actually. But the principle here I agree with. It also fits with my Catholicism too and the fact we're not here to please ourselves anyway which is a pretty selfish nasty idea. To be fair to dominant men I think largely they want a satisfied woman too, although I did once ask a boyfriend how do you decide whether we do X or Y (in bed) and the answer which amused me was that in essence he did what he wanted and he'd found that always worked which I suppose it does if the women you go out with are those who want to please anyway. by Hera on 2006 Jul 14 - 14:42 | reply to this comment I never thought about it before Lucy, your comment made me realize how much I enjoy him telling me to do something. Not in a rude or off-putting tone, he just uses similar words to what you mentioned, "I want you to..." or "You will..." It's funny that I never realized how much I favor that to "Could you please..." until I read your comment. I much prefer the way he firmly tells me instructions rather than gently making a request, as others have in the past. His expectations are always clearly outlined. And the best part is, of course, successfully completing the mission. It makes me very happy to be his good girl! by lex on 2006 Jul 14 - 22:12 | reply to this comment I agree with you. I get tire I agree with you. I get tired of hearing "If you get a chance" or "Could you". A firm order would spice things up for me totally. I like his stern voice. It gets my motor started. It is really good motivation.
